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Beliefs Run behind the Scenes - Anais Nin, Author
Beliefs run your life from behind the scenes. They are buried beneath the surface like icebergs and what you are consciously aware of is only the tip of the iceberg. What exactly is a belief? It is your perception of reality, something you decided was true at some point in time, because you were either told it was true or you proved it to be so. Whether or not it is still true, the belief is a part of you and a determining factor in the results you get in your life—because beliefs govern your actions, reactions, thoughts, and feelings. Some are life-supporting, others self-defeatingYou must uncover what beliefs are running you so you can keep only the ones that support you and transform or eliminate the others.
You may take all the right actions; yet sabotage your success by not believing it is possible because you have never done it before. Or you may have destructive beliefs, formed in the past and useful at one time, such as: I’m not capable, deserving, good enough, smart enough, or worse. Because it seemed true then doesn’t mean it still is. And at the time you formed it, it probably wasn’t even true, it was just your perception. There are many ways to interpret experiences. Some negative ways are: “I’m a failure” or “I never get what I want.” These statements were your take on the experience and were not true. But you believed them and stored them as statements of truth according to you. Someone else might have thought: “I need to examine what didn’t work and fix it,” or “I’m proud of myself that I took the risk.” All these statements add positive reinforcement to this person’s belief system and they have a better chance of success next time.
Observe Your Belief System
Observe your beliefs by listening to your thoughts and words and trying to align the two. Write down the ones that don’t serve you well. Learn other ways to change your thoughts or words to empower your beliefs. The truth is that if you believe you will have success and reach higher limits, you will. Remember, whatever you believe, is what is your truth. So why not believe in yourself and your ability to have all the success and happiness you deserve?
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Combining Thoughts and Words
When your thoughts don’t align with your actions, you’re driving with your foot on the gas and the brake at the same time. Your goals and actions are the gas, while the self-defeating thoughts and words are the brakes. Your thoughts and words are more powerful than the actions you take in pursuit of your goals. They create an energy that either supports or inhibits your success and speak more loudly and have more impact than anything you do in your outer world.
So the next time you set a goal, develop a plan, and take actions, remember to develop your inner plan along with your outer one to work together to achieve success. Think success, speak success, and act success and you will achieve it!
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Success Mindset
A successful life begins with a success mindset, and that begins with your thoughts—as well as the words you speak primarily to yourself and also what you say to others. Some days you may wake up thinking that you’re never going to reach your goal, the economy is bad, you don’t have enough skills or time or money. Or you complain to someone that you’ve done so much and are still not seeing results. Or maybe you’ve done something you considered foolish and beat yourself up for it, calling yourself “stupid” or “loser” or even worse. Take control of your thoughts and you’ll see your life changing before your eyes.
The Vibration of Success
Most people, when they think of success, generally envision setting a goal and doing certain activities to achieve that goal. In other words, a series of external actions that will lead them to success. However, success does not always result directly from performing certain actions, and when it doesn’t, we may be puzzled as to why we didn’t achieve the goal. Did we do something wrong? Should we have taken different actions? Was the goal too far fetched?
The truth is that success is first an inside job before it can be a result on the outside. For optimum success, therefore, we need to take on the Vibration of Success. What does that mean? Vibration is energy, and the energy you hold in your thoughts and feelings on the inside attracts to you like results on the outside. If you hold an inner vibration of lack and loss, you’ll attract lack and loss in your physical world. Therefore, if you raise up your vibrational energy to one of abundance and success, you’ll attract that in your life-in all areas. Read more
No commentsHolding the Vision
There are various steps to creating, attracting and manifesting your desires. Initially, you need to be crystal clear about what you want. Then you can use various methods and disciplines to bring your desires into your life. Affirmations, visualization, journaling, positive self-talk and raising your vibrational energy are all tools you can use to draw to you your highest goals and visions.
While knowing what you want and asking for it are essential to manifesting, so is holding the vision. You may say affirmations every morning then go about the rest of the day doubting your words. Or you might focus on too many goals at once and lose your focus and clarity on the most important ones.
How can you more effectively hold the vision? Read more
No commentsPlanning for Success
Success can be incredibly elusive, or it can come in abundance with the right mind-set and know-how. Few people really understand how to create abundance, particularly abundance in every facet of their lives. Most people have no clue as to the awesome power that resides within them.
- You create your own circumstances and reality by the Energy of the Mind.
- Use the law of attraction to achieve all of your life’s dreams.
- Uncover and eliminate the mental and emotional obstacles keeping you from your true potential.
- Visualize your way to success and see the difference this makes in your life
The Journey From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
January has come and gone and you’re into the second month of the New Year! Hopefully, you set your New Year’s goals and now you’re ready to see them begin to manifest. Your goals may include the areas of health, relationships, finances, business, family, and creative pursuits. You may want to build a thriving business and create a balanced life. But how do you get from where you are to where you want to be? So glad you asked. The quickest answer is: plan your work and work your plan. Every journey needs a strategy to get to where you want to go, whether it’s a map, a marketing plan, or working with a coach or mentor.
There are proven methods used by highly successful people that help them achieve what they want in life. The most successful people-those who achieve the goals they set out to achieve and live fulfilling lives-demonstrate certain traits and actions. They are organized, disciplined, curious, open to learning and growing, fearless (or willing to act in spite of fear), positive-minded, and persistent. They take action, measure their results, and change course when necessary. Here is a 7-step winning formula for YOU to have a successful journey this year.
Let’s start our journey together… Read more
No commentsLove - the Greatest Attractor of All
Do you have someone special to be with on Valentine’s Day? Whether you’re in a relationship with another or not, everyone has someone special. YOU! You are the most special person in your world. And if you want to have more love in your life, all you need to do is love yourself. Sounds simple! And for some it is the most difficult thing to do. Women especially are often taught to put everyone’s needs ahead of their own. Men are taught they need to take care of their wives and families. So if we’re all taking care of others, who’s taking care of us?
Although it would seem that those we take care of are being loved and their needs are being met, only we can fill our deepest need-that of self-approval or self-love. If you don’t love and accept yourself, it is difficult for anyone else to really love you deeply. No one else but you knows what it really means to take care of your innate needs. Only you know best how to love and nurture yourself.
So how about being your own valentine this Valentine’s Day? Read more
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